Valentines Day is just a day. In loving relationship Valentine’s Day is every day. I never do anything particularly special for Valentine’s Day because either both of us or one of us works day/night etc sure I love romance and so does my husband but it doesn’t need to be on that day. When I was single, it was also just another day. Who cares. It’s a weekday, not even weekend. Most people can’t go out on that day even if they want to.

I’ve read about people getting in relationship with whoever or prolonging break ups so they have a date for New Years Eve of Valentines Day. Really.. It sounds high schoolish to me.

In fact the only people I know in real life who are obsessed with valentine day are high school kids. Two weeks before that and two weeks after. Don’t drive yourself crazy over unimportant things. Try not to be “anguishing” about it.