i have started talking with my friends about marriage....I have a lot of problems with my marriage...and I have been married 63 years...we still live in the same house but I am frequently very frustrated and angry....so I have been looking at the 7 deadly habits and the 7 caring habits that are recommended for married people...I am finding that this is very hard to do...it takes me time and work to not get so angry about my wife..i bring it up here because my marriage causes me a lot of stress and causes me grief and depression and fear...

the 7 deadly habits are not recommended...