People just DON'T understand.. it has nothing to do with you, or us...
case in point, my sister spoke to me about things our mother might need, and my sister expects me to do this. I mentioned that I was in the ER myself last Monday... PTSD... flashback. She had no idea what I meant or why I would be at the ER... AND SHE'S A NURSE!!! So, some ppl will try to understand, and others won't.
We here at psychcentral DO understand depression. I hope you will find a T to help you understand it better, too.