I don't think that she "hates" you as a person. It is your behavior that that she doesn't like. You can change that behavior now that you are beginning to see it for yourself. When I say that she doesn't like you (in this case) there is nothing that you can do now to make her change her mind. If you go in there one more time she will have had enough and you will end up in jail. That is how mad she is.