Some people don't understand eating disorders and may not fully sympathise for people who have eating disorders. People are some how convinced that anorexia and bulimia are self suffering and the ill asks for it, as though it's easy to just eat any thing. When it comes to this though people have to truly rely upon them selves, especially if they know what they want. If you want to be better and healthier then you must do it for yourself and not rely on an outward non understanding hand. Nobody knows what you suffer through entirely accept for yourself.