I'll be honest about Valentine's day, I haven't viewed it quite the same since researching origins. I wear black now and claim religious observance. From Christmas to New Years to my son's birthday to my birthday and 2 weeks later...this typically snow filled day where dressing up is a long shot-who wants to wear heels in snow and ice? I do give little giftbags to my sons.

I suspect as far as the book, isn't it funny how it's implied that we aren't good enough, as women? As though there's some flaw because we haven't landed a catch? No wonder that it's both laughable and frustrating.

I just started to listen to the above video. Perhaps some words of wisdom? Or just another disappointed heart? It's 38 minutes long

Marriage involves sharing space and responsibility for maintaining space. I might just be disillusioned?? Is your worth truly contingent on shared space?