...I will also share that I am in debt and told her that numerous times to which she denied, called me a liar and still demanded/requested that I pay for various expenses for her both when I was there with her and still dating and even after she dumped me and as we were single. She additionally would attempt to convince me of guilt and blame if I did not purchase such expenses for her.

I will admit that I do blame myself for so much of what happened and is happening now.