As ou already know i have a lot of problems with my marrage. My H can be very verbaly abusive. We are complete diffrent. One day we can be having a perfact day, then i may say somthing that hits him the wrong way, and the whole day is ruened. But i have been abused in one way or another all of my life, so i try to handle myH's verbal abuse. We will be having our 25th anniversery in June, so itry to look at it as, if he can put up with my MI, then i can walk on egg shells when it is needed.