just my added thoughts.... this person taking down that used with out permission posting is not going to solve the problem. there is no way of knowing how many have had access to that post they made on their website that may have copied it for their own usage or copy pasted to their own journals, blogs and sites... even if they take it down now, minutes hours or days after having it up, there are those who may already have seen and used it... there is no way of deleting it off that websites servers and internet providers records, there is no way to completely delete it off that persons own home computers hard drive....

my own opinion is that there is only one solution here and that is to pay attention to our own internet safety rules.

for me and my children that means I dont post anything anywhere on the internet that I would not stand outside my home in the middle of the street with a bullhorn shouting through the city. if its so private that I only want certain people to know then I tell those people face to face, not on some computer or cell phone, or internet website.