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Originally Posted by ruby2011
So after my 90 days were up, I went inside the fast food joint as a customer. My supervisor simply said hi and took my order. She never gave any indication that she ever knew me. That was devastating. Especially as it wasn't busy and she had time to stand around talking to other people about her facebook.
A few days later, I realized I must move forward and forgive her. I'm not forgiving her because she deserved it, but because being mad at her is holding me back. So I let go and focus on things that actually matter, like my current job. And school. And starting from scratch in making new friends after I pushed existing ones away with my chronic bad attitude. My supervisor may have wrecked a lot of havoc in my life, but this is where it will stop.
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As other people have stated, and by the other posts you have mentioned, your behavior has crossed the line to full fledged stalking. The fact that you aren't in jail already is absolutely amazing. As weird as it sounds, you may have actually been working with some of the nicest and most patient people around because most people would have had a restraining order against you or even in jail a long time ago. Especially if it was someone with paranoia problems resulting in a fear that everyone is out to get them or someone who has a fear of a crime happening to them due to PTSD from a previous crime. I actually know someone back in high school who was like that. If you did it to someone like her or similar to her who has no patience in the world, you would already be in prison. So you actually lucked out that your supervisor and coworkers were as nice and patient as they were. Also I hope you realize that depending on where you live, the prison sentence for stalking is five years. I think some places are even ten years, all depends.
I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just laying out the facts and wanted to tell you all of this. It is much better that me or someone else on the forum to tell you this rather than the judge who will be way harsher than any of us have ever been. Going back there to reapply and expect to be rehired, and going back as a customer, was a bad idea and I hope now that you realize that you should never ever step foot in that store again for any reason. The other thing is, if you were to get charged, it wouldn't be just stalking, it would be trespassing too. That too, carries a prison sentence and having both charges, adding on any other charges they feel like throwing at you, would ruin your life forever. This may actually very well be our last warning, since going back there again will result in you being taken away by the police. We understand that you have a disorder, but it is no excuse for poor behavior. I hope you learn to change very quick. Most people don't have as much patience as your former boss and coworkers. And some, like the person I knew, has none at all.