Mine canceled on me last night.... was supposed to have a session at 2 today, and she Emailed me around 9:15. She DID give an explanation.... lots of snow headed our way, and she was flying out Friday for a weekend conference. She didn't want to risk flight cancelations, so she rescheduled her flight for this morning. HOnestly, I find it helpful to know why, and am thankful my T does tell me.

I was really irritated.....not only had I just taken care of "an issue" I'd been having with soemone, I timed it knowing I'd have therapy the next day and could talk about it. But, I also had to scramble with vehicle swapping for today, and had JUST arranged my plan for that. I wasn't irritated so much that she canceled, but because she didn't give me a little more notice. She waited till she had a chance to access her Email, because we don't talk on the phone, and although we used to text, she made a no-text boundary a couple of years ago. But I would think, in the case of a cancellation, she could have shot me a quick text instead of waiting until she got to her laptop later in the evening. She didn't know, of course, that I needed my husband's vehicle today, and also needed mine for my session, but had I found out even half an hour earlier, that would have saved some trouble (actually taking hubby into work so he could bring the company vehicle home, so I could use the truck to haul a horse this morning, and my car for my session). The parking lot is small, and it's not fun trying to park his big 'ol truck in there....and I didn't want to unhook the trailer anyway, just to go to my session, then have to hook it back up again. So, next session I will bring this up. I will (and do) abide by her no texting rule, but I still would prefer if she's cancelling, that she text me to let me know when she knows, except waiting until her "usual" computer time before she goes to bed. I was irritated, because of all of the planning I'd done to make it to the session, just to have her cancel it 10 minutes after I got back from driving hubby to work to get his work truck.