Hugs, TMC....That sounds really frightening. I'm sorry your T then expressed doubts about being able to handle working with you, which sounds so painful...Would you still be willing to work with T if he doesn't do the parts work? Maybe he just doesn't feel as qualified to do that? Or maybe you need to ease into it more? I really hope you can work it out with him, because it sounds like he's been such a great support for you since you stopped seeing S.