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Originally Posted by Deborah35
I don't really buy the whole "Well it will happen when you least expect it, or when you stop looking". Wait? What? I know when people say that they mean well, but still. How is not looking for it going to find you? The same goes for a job, will it come to you, probably not. So people shouldn't say "You will find a job when you least expect it".
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Thank you so very much for saying this. I disagree with "it will happen when you least expect it, or when you stop looking" because it is NOT true.
I have been completely single for more than 10 years. I never look nor I expect to find him.
Every single person I know has found her/his partner because she/he was actively looking for a partner on few different online platforms, going out to bars, attending meet up groups, arranging through friends etc. So, yeah you got to actively put yourself out there. I wish my life were at a point which enabled an environment to be concerned about finding a partner but unfortunately I have so many other severe issues to deal with.