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Originally Posted by ~Christina
If you accidentally run into her and ask her out and she says no , NO means No. If she was willing to cheat on her husband years ago she “ might” likely do it again , would you want that ? If she cheated again ?
Why not have a Facebook and send her a friend request, that way you can test the waters with out setting up accidentally met up.
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Because I do not want to be her friend and do not want her to misconstrue my intent. I want her to know what i want from the start so there is no confusion . She might then think a date-if it hapened- was two buddies going out as friends.Or I was a friend wanting to go out as friends.
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If you accidentally run into her and ask her out and she says no , NO means No
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Not necessarily So long as there is no force or pressure - i have no such intent- it does not prevent saying here is my number if you change your mind.
I thought of making a facebook and sending her a message to say something like.
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I saw you on the dating site. Do you meet someone ? If not and you are single do you want to on a date with me sometime. If she says no then i say here is my number if you change your mind.
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Is that too forward?
I am not interested in friendship with women. Too many have tried to use me as a 'friend'.Caused me lots of depression and unhappiness. So my attitude now is if i am not good enough to date they are not good enough to be friends with. Mostly women friends just want to tell problems cry on my shoulder and when their problem is solved they do not want to know me again until another one crops up. A 'friend' - ex friend now- who i did lots of free work for did not want to know when i was sick and needed something from her. Women who want friends can join the girl guides