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Originally Posted by Deborah35
Wow,
I feel the same exact way you do. I've spoken to other people about this too, mostly women and they seem happy being by themselves. They act like I'm the one with the problem. I want a partner, what is so terrible about that? The people that want to be alone, more power to them, but that's not how I want to live. Everyone wants different things.
I'm 45, and I've been living alone since 2007. Sometimes I feel like if I will never be with anyone. I've had friends in the past, but that's just the thing "had", then they just don't want to deal with you anymore, well one friendship I ended it first then she agreed that it would be best to move on. Actually, I'm so glad I don't have to deal with her or her family anymore. The constant arguing when I went over there was too much between her brother, kids...
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TY!
I agree -- there's nothing wrong with wanting a partner.... someone wrote that it's the desperation for a partner that is problematic. Then something is wrong, and I tend to agree.
I don't feel desperate for one -- I feel.... despondent and discouraged.