You are in a relationship, but you are meeting men online just looking for friendship, and you don’t like women, just want online friendship with men. You are adamant that they are also just looking for platonic online friendship with taken you, yet are baffled why they begin to flirt and then you drift apart and can’t understand why.

You say I am generalizing, but I’m not because these men’s flirting actions prove what I said is true.

I’m only trying to help clarify things for you, not argue with you. This is all I’ll say about it.

1. How does your SO feel about your online friendships with men?
2. Why do you want online friendships with men?
3. Maybe if you have a hobby of something in common with these guys, there can be a strictly platonic way to be friends because that hobby is what bonds you. I’m not sure where you are meeting these male ‘friends’.