I was all nervous to tell my two step daughters but it was a real non event. They looked at me like i told them my hair was brown. I was pretty nervous too but looking back i dont like to leave the house and beg to get out of doing so constantly and get anxious very easily so i guess it was kind of obvious im socially phobic and depressed. Oh yes and my sister said "Thats what i figured you had" so i didnt get to surprise anyone heh