doesn't directly relate to your question but when therapist was discussing one of my dxs with me earlier this year I wasn't so much angry that I hadn't hid things well or hadn't fooled anyone as much as I thought but rather more upset that no one had said anything to me!!
I felt like if they had known this (and more ppl knew than I thought!!) why didn't they help clue me in a little sooner, ya know?
I know they couldn't due to reasons with dx and so on but still! Chapped my hide!
I'll think about some of the disclosures I've made over the years and reactions to them from different ppl. I know some ppl I've told were so non phased that I felt stupid for making big deal of talking with them about it. Other ppl seemed genuinely interested in knowing and trying to understand so that they could better know how to react to my seemingly odd behaviours.
Just got out of big stressful meeting and am a bit fried. Thanks for all the support around that sweetie! ((((kd)))
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