So,,, you don't get along with women, so you seek out friendships with men. That is Ok, as long as boundaries are established and your boyfriend doesn't mind. Why don't you get along with women? Just curious!

Since it's happened four times, perhaps your boundaries are nos strong enough. You have to make it very clear from the beginning that you strictly want platonic friendship and are not looking for flirtation and/or sex. They probably will not engage with you further, unless they hope you will change your mind.