I know this may sound silly, but four times is nothing girl! Do you have any idea how many "online friends" I have gone through over the years? Male and female, (I know you don't like women, but I suggest you look into that, because sisterhood is a fabulous thing, even online!).

The point is, I have come to accept that it is the nature of the internet, and online interactions these days. I am not agreeing with people's behavior, or even why they do the things they do when talking to people online, but I have learned that people regard most of their online friends as very disposable, so this happening four times is small potatoes, honestly.

So if you want healthy platonic relationships, that actually last and have some weight, I would venture outside the internet. And by the way, these are my opinions purely based on my experience, I am sure there are people who have long lasting online friendships, I just haven't encountered that.