(((((blah_x))))) I did not mean to imply you should shut up and leave! I personally do not recall seeing you’re posts of good-bye. May I just offer this suggestion? Post that you are in a bad place and need some support because you’re feeling alone, misunderstood, ignored or whatever.

Sometimes, not all, but sometimes those posts of “I’m leaving” feel like a form of manipulation.

If someone makes a thread that they are leaving, and I do not know them, I feel uncomfortable or phony responding to the thread. On the other hand if someone posts a request for help or attention I feel that I am not out of line by offering a stranger an ear or a shoulder to lean on.