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Originally Posted by Unhinged88
What if he isn't the first. What if this has been going on longer, how many have been violated? Not to add fuel to the fire, but where there is one, there's more. Usually.
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Exactly this has been weighting on my mind. I am so torn about posting here about anything important or personal even if I do not post and identifying factors in my post that can be traced back to me.
You know someone can write an article about therapy and write something I wrote about a session and then my T is reading about articles written on therapy and then recognizes that it is exactly what was said and done in one of our sessions and then gets suspicious.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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