Just to add I don’t think it’s wrong to ask yourself if a man is marriage material early on. Yes as early as the first date. If you want to be married.

Last two men weren’t marriage or even relationship material and it all ended with heartbreak for golden. It could all be avoided if exploration of who these men are on a deeper level and if they are commitment material was done first, before jumping into it. So yes first date isn’t too early at all. The least thing golden needs is a third heartbreak in jusf few months time. Don’t date men who aren’t marriage material if you want to marry.

I don’t think the issue is asking if he is marriage material. The issue in the past relationships was NOT asking.