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Originally Posted by Elio
I too did not have the type of support I needed in childhood. I also do not see attachment as dependency, or that all dependency is bad. I believe that it is through coming to believe in the safety of my attachment that things are changing for me.
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It sounds like you and I are having similar experiences, which I find reassuring. I think I'm in the "messy middle" right now too. Sometimes I can see glimmers of what "better" is going to feel like, and that's what keeps me moving forward. I worry about my T a lot too, because the connection feels vital and irreplaceable right now.