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Originally Posted by seesaw
I don't get dates and it doesn't bother me at all that Golden posts this. Our lives are very different and we live in different cities. There are more eligible men where she lives, and fewer where I live. We also have different lifestyles. You can't compare yourself to someone else; there are just too many factors.
And even if someone did get triggered, should she not post about her issues because they bother someone else?
What was the point of making this observation?
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Geographical area does make a difference. I live in a hustling bustling metro area full of available people. My now husband lived literally in the middle of no where when we’ve met and there was literally like no one. He thought he’d never get a date. Life styles make a huge difference too. As well as specific preferences. Even online dating. More limiting criteria you put (Education, profession, kids etc), less dating pool you get. It doesn’t mean you are in dusadvantage, just that you will have fewer potential dates to choose from.