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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Of course I’m not suggesting Eve not post. I’m married, so I’m not even comparing myself, yet TBE I feel a little envious how Eve is getting dates with such abundance and ease. So I’m thinking there must be a lot of people, seeing as there are so many readers of Eve’s threads, who feel envious.
I guess my point is to acknowledge the other side of the coin of people who can’t get dates, and here Eve is very blessed to be getting so many. Also, to say beware who may be getting triggered by the discussion of all these suitors. That’s my paranoia talking, especially since the thread about who is lurking here and using these posts for whatever purpose.
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Tisha, the thing is I go out a lot. Often I am alone when I go to hear a band. I meet a lot of people all the time. I put myself into situations where I may meet new people (not on purpose), therefore, the ease of dating sometimes. This last guy friend I met through my music scene.
Others may not go out as often, be as sociable or comfortable with being out alone as I am. But I am who I am and I cannot hide who I am on here.
As it is, the most recent ex I met through online dating, so being out and about is not the only way I have met men.
And the truth is, if ppl want to meet someone, you've got to put yourself out there to meet new ppl -- through online dating, interest groups, hobbies, church, classes, or whatnot.
And yes, as Seesaw pointed out, I am in a major metropolitan area that is overflowing with an abundance of dating choices.