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Old Feb 10, 2018, 03:43 PM
Depressed-Fiance Depressed-Fiance is offline
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I think it would be better if you meet with this woman for coffee casually at first..

Yes and by that it will be a casual affair and one that shall decide if we feel a connection and want to perhaps go on a date or another coffee meet depending on how it went.



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I am going to disagree with other posters in that if I was 45 and single I might be taken back a bit if a 30 year old approached me right off the bat asking me to date him. I would not think he's crazy or anything but I would probably consider the age difference.

However, if I met him for coffee casually and got to know him I may be able to see "him" first on a social level and then have a chance to think about it in a different way.

Ofcourse, that's just me and how I would feel about it.


I am trying to understand that from your point of view when you say that you may be taken aback if someone my age approached someone a bit older than me. Yes, I can sort of see what you mean but I wouldn't straight away go all guns blazing saying I wanted to date her, I'd want her to know that I liked her and wanted to see where it went...just casually.
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