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Old Feb 10, 2018, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I agree that marriage is (or at least should be) more than sharing space. Well any cohabitating relationship involves sharing space. With or without legal marriage. Trick is to find partner with him sharing space is comfortable and worth it for both.
Of course it's more than shared space. My disillusion is that if all those things cannot involve shared space is it really worth being down on oneself for? The OP was in a dark spot when I was reflecting on her plight. I have been married and divorced and have cohabitated before as well. The space part is a biggie for me regardless of all else.
Thanks for this!
LadyShadow