I left my first therapist abruptly because after telling multiple times that he loved me, when I invited him to act on it he pulled the transference card. Come to find out he left his job a year later and divorced two years later and then came to a function that he knew I would be at but I was still so raw that I didn't want to speak to him. I didn't know he had left his wife which is what I wanted. But alas he still hasn't come find me which I always thought that he would after those two years.