It’s not that hard to meet men and most certainly men get interested. I was recently asked out because a guy didn’t notice my wedding ring. It’s no big deal. It doesn’t mean though you must respond if they are interested. You can’t possibly like every man who asks you out.

Do you have specific criteria for giving men your free time and even heck your phone number? You say you gave to like them but what else are you looking at besides attraction and good looks and them going to concerts? Does the new ban have career? Education? Looking for commitment? Has kids? Is divorced (stil married?). What are his moral values? what else do you look into besides some of the surface things?

If you date because you are lonely, you might need to look for other things to keep busy. In my opinion you still need to be focused on building your independence and moving out and making money, not worrying about dates.

What’s concerning is that you have two heartbreaks within few months, albeit with someone else in between and now are dating this guy. It’s 4th man in short period of time. It’s concerning. The point isn’t that they all want you. Men want women all the time.

The point is why do you have to go with and eventually get involved with everyone who asks? What does your therapist say?