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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
And just an aside— Don’t talk about the exes and how you are hurting.
When I was dating, and yes, my 1950’s mother did groom me to marry, she told me, “Act like you just fell off a Christmas tree.” Lol
What she taught me worked like a charm. And I wish I had maintained it. Opening up and telling my h my past and all my stuff was not good looking back.
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. Sure no need to be “open books” at all times (my therapist likes the phrase), but I don’t believe it’s wise to hide truth about yourself from your spouse or anyone you are serious about. Saying that, I agree that it ain’t cute to talk about exes and how they hurt you on the first date.