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Originally Posted by divine1966
. Sure no need to be “open books” at all times (my therapist likes the phrase), but I don’t believe it’s wise to hide truth about yourself from your spouse or anyone you are serious about. Saying that, I agree that it ain’t cute to talk about exes and how they hurt you on the first date.
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Well, not hide, but I didn’t need to be so open about all my past. Over time in our marriage, I told him about exes and issues because our relationship was struggling and I was reaching for reasons. Here I am, even still back and forth, minute by minute, PTSD. Maybe keeping all that to myself may have been a better way to go.
See, Eve, once you do establish the relationship with Mr. Right, keeping the relationship healthy is a challenge too!