Man..this midlife dating is complicated stuff , my head hurts after reading all that advice , you may need to take a file on this non date 😝
All written out of concern and from past pain I'm sure .
When I play golf I overthink everything . Write so many swing thoughts on my glove my brain goes into paralysis .... now I only write one thing on there that I see just before I swing "smile"
I hope you enjoy your non date and have a stimulating evening of great conversation and laughs .