Hey, so I’m 22, female and very freaked out and confused for a while now. I have a cousin that’s a year younger than me, and I spent some time with him last time I went out of town a few months ago... after a week of hanging out, and me being on my way back to town, I was thinking about my week out there with him and some other family members and when I looked back on the time me and him spent together I realized I had flirted with him a few times over the course of the week... I didn’t even realize I was doing it at first, and then after rehashing more of the time I spent with him, realized I kind of had a crush... on my cousin!! but I’ve been trying to find answers, and try to figure out what’s going on and so far have been unsuccessful. I guess I’m just trying to get to the root of this whole thing. Why it’s happening, how not normal it is, how to get it out of my head.