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Old Feb 12, 2018, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by annielovesbacon View Post
Also, if you start seeing a new therapist, this is something I would bring up right away. Therapists know how to deal with transference, and if you attack it head on maybe you can avoid the hurt.
I agree on bringing it up right away, which is what I did with my current T--though part of why I started seeing him was to help me deal with transference for my marriage counselor, so he obviously knows it can be a thing for me.

The other thing is, if a T is *not* comfortable dealing with transference, it's better to know that early on instead of after you've already started feeling that.
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