My partner and I moved in together in December and I’m learning a new side to him. I am absolutely hating the role I’ve taken on in this relationship.

If ANYTHING breaks or needs attention I must just figure out how to fix it

We need the council to come pick up rubbish (old mattresses) and I asked him this weekend if he’d rung and he told me you’re the female you ring and fix it.

On the weekend the front gate broke. Guess what? He told me to fix it.

A grape vine growing by our roof fell with the wind and I couldn’t reach and guess what? He told me to fix it.

Last night our Foxtel broke .., and yup ... you guessed it.

Today I got home from work and the Internet wasn’t working. By the time he’d got home I’d been having a crack at the cables for half an hour and he said “Good for you”.

I’m furious

He’s been trying to fix up bits and pieces at his old place and has his folks who are retired helping him and it’s been 6 weeks and he’s STILL not done.

Sorry for the rant I’m desperate and yes I’ve spoken to him and told him that he has responsibilities in this role in this relationship too