I know what it sounds like. He has mental issues that magnify thoughts which build more into something more than the size of the actual situation. If I keep quiet, go along with whatever is happening that I am continuing a cycle. He apologized, and because I love him, I accept his apology and try my best to go forward. I to suffer with mental and emotional breakdowns, therefore I have empathy for his personal mental breaks. I cannot give up just yet. But at the same time I know my limits and will not tolerate certain actions for long.
I haven't spoken to him for couple days, and that may seen like nothing but when we talk every day, multiple times a day. Today he surprised me by stopping by before work and the outcome was he would go see a doctor to get on medicine, as that is what I asked of him..its a start, but I still am reserved with everything.