This is an interesting thread. I think my T is basically the same warm, calm, friendly, patient person she is in session and outside. When she used to be on FB and I read comments by others to her, they were all flattering. Of course, that's FB.

Once I found something online written about T from her cousin. He mentioned her "wonderful qualities." I think my T is mostly genuinely herself in session. She doesn't put on a different persona, but is at her best because she cares about all of her clients.

I have gotten some other glimpses of her, mostly in relation to an art show she participated in. She wrote about her anger, and titled a painting with a four letter word beginning with "f". That totally shocked me.

She's also reacted to me a few times in a hurtful way. So she isn't all sweet and sugary like I used to believe when I idolized her.