You are angry sbout it yet you keep in fixing the things? If you couldn't fix these things, who would? There is a fine line between couldn't & wouldn't. Maybe it's a choice you could make to make your point.

At the end of my marriage (that was the last 13 years if it) I went on strike & did nothing in the house because of his attitude. I didn't mind doing things until the attitude showed up then it was WAR. That IS NOT a relationship. You honestly would be better off back alone than in this kind of situation which will only grow worse not better.

I didnt know what my H ciuld or couldn't do wjen I got married though I laid down the ground rules hoping I would scare him off. He was top ASD to understand what I really meant by what I was saying but didn't know it at the time & we had been living with parents before we got married.

Now I know what guys are capable of doing because it comes up in our conversations. Living alone I am my plumber, mechanic, techie, & repair worker for anything I can handle & hire done what I cant do myself but that brings up abilities into all my conversations so I pretty much know everyone's abiluties that I have social contact with.

Know I would be VERY UNHAPPY in a situation like this.