I don't apologize for feeling the way I feel, what I will apologize for is when I express those feelings in a hurtful way that ends up hurting the other person. I try hard to own my feelings but express them in a diplomatic way. This has taken a lot of work & honestly there was a time that hurting the person that made me feel that way WAS what I wanted & wasn't sorry in the least & never apologized for it either. Living in a war environment is not healthy.