My T is very smart, and I get the good part of that : insight, perception. Once in a while though, he makes a snarky or dismissive comment ( not towards me) about a topic, and I can see that he might have a know-it-all side. The other thing is he tries to teach me to be more assertive, and I can tell in glimmers it would suck to argue with him- he would be a bulldog lol. He is the kind of person to whom an ultimatum would be like a double dog dare to do the opposite . I do think I prefer him as my T!