It's all my fault. I found her approachable because I never had a lot of respect for her.

She does have depths, they just don't interest me. Our business was a potential source of meaning to who she is. But she is bad at conceptual thinking, story development. The things that mean the most to her (food, home, politics) seemed to fall flat to me. If it meant so much to her, where was her enthusiasm? Her sense of story behind food, politics, and home? It was like she just found the topic and said, there, there it is. And it was like falling from a height onto a flat rock.

But she likes gaming, and apparently engineering. Maybe I should have asked more questions about that. But I am not interested in gaming. I tried it, and it was interesting to see how interactive it was, but I got bored. Also, when she games, she makes really loud noises pressing on her computer, and I honestly found that scary.