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Old Feb 14, 2018, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
Ever since I was young, I'd talk to people in my head (or sometimes out loud if I was alone). The other person doesn't usually say much: yes, no, why, etc.

I talk to my T all the time. I use it to prepare for a session, to try to process something on my own, or just to bring myself comfort. I just last week admitted to T that I do this. We didn't talk about it, but she did seem a little surprised.

I've done this for as long as I can remember, so if it's unhealthy, well... Oh well. There's worse things then talking to someone who isn't there.
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Originally Posted by uhmno View Post
Yes, I do. However, I imagine many people and talk to them so it's not unusual for me. I always did it even as a little kid and when I am alone I talk to them out loud. I especially do it when I am bored or when I am watching a movie and something comes to my mind I wanna talk about. I really like doing it. In addition, I believe that it is (at least in my case) a form of processing information. ...or maybe I am mad
I have done this since I was a kid too, I've always been one to talk to myself. Maybe it's weird, maybe it's not... but I do agree that for me it is a way of processing information... sometimes after a session I will sit in my car and talk out loud for hours about what I would have said if I had more time, what I wish I had said, what I want to talk about next time, etc. It is comforting, mostly, although it also makes me miss T which is hard.
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