We had a conversation about how some clients need firmer boundaries and others need them relaxed.
As my history was of having no one there for me, it wouldn't be therapeutic for T to refuse to see me when I've been in crisis.
I've never pushed the boundaries so I'm in the later bracket. T relaxed them for me.
When I've emailed in crisis T Has offered
me an extra session as she said I need the support.

Theres not really a one Size fits all. A clients history needs taking into consideration.