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Originally Posted by hvert
I would worry if he talked about his other female friends by name but seemed to avoid mentioning Jo. Like if tells you how he and Sara went to the mall but never says anything about Jo unless you ask, that would seem curious to me. I would also wonder about not video chatting on Valentine's.
The lunch thing sounds weird too, tbh. Maybe I just read too much into stuff too, though!
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Well this week is when all his exams and assignments are due, and he has work at night on Valentine's day (we have a 3 hour difference between us) so it makes sense. I see your point about him not mentioning every female friend including Jo.
But yes, the lunch is weird. He told me he cancelled but still. To agree to it in the first place. He tells me that she is not interested in him and she is dating many people at the moment, but I think it's ridiculous to assume someone isn't interested just because she's talking to other guys while their waiting for you to become single. Also, apparently 6/7 months ago, they hung out (she was doing LDR that time too) she suggested that if both their partners were not in the same city to celebrate SPECIFICALLY Valentine's Day, that they should hang out. How disrespectful of a person can she be? And being the assumed oblivious person he is, he actually said okay and still doesn't understand why that sounds so wrong even when I explained it.