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Originally Posted by long_gone
This seems like such a simple concept, but I really struggle with identifying what is a crossing and what is a (potential) violation. I have discussed my therapist's boundary crossings with her, but I can't accept that a crossing can be a positive thing. It feels threatening and I don't trust it. Anyway, thank you for making the point so succinctly, I think about this a lot.
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That is kind to say thanks but maybe it isn’t as simple? Can the little things lead right up to the line in the sand? It’s funny how those things have worked just fine with me and past t’s but with current warning bells go off for me to be careful.