My brother lives in another state. He has depression. I have BP with major anxiety. The telephone terrifies me. I prefer e-mail, texting, IM, or even video chat. He refuses all of the above and will only talk on the phone if I initiate. Our personalities , in general, couldn't be more different. Should I expect him to compensate for me? He says that I have hurt him when writing. He is offended easily and doesn't give me the benefit of the doubt.