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Originally Posted by emptynightmare
Trust your gut. Yes there is risk everywhere even in daylight/public, especially if you belong to a minority group,but please do not let fear spiral out of control. Trusting your instincts and acting accordingly will help you with that. Are you working with a therapist?
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Hi there, you make great points
yes, I'm working with a therapist and she strongly encourages that I meet anyone through this app in a public place and not somewhere quiet/isolated.
There is a risk in daylight, you're absolutely right but I would like to think that it's unlikeky/a rarity. Do you think, so long as we meet in public, there is less of a risk he'll try to kidnap/attack me????
My gut is giving me mixed signals. He's a friendly guy who isn't pushy, lives nearby, wants to meet me and is easy to talk to but I'm thinking also about the what iffs