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Old Feb 14, 2018, 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted by maybeblue View Post
To me it seems kind of suspicious that if he were raped and nearly killed by people using the same app that you are using, that he would continue using it. Wouldn't you think that would really scare a person off of using that means of meeting people? That is a horrible thing to lie about too...if he is. I think that you have to trust your gut on this one. There will be other guys who don't set off red flags.
That's exactly right. I was trying to be subtle, questioning details and he told me it would be bad of him to lie which suggests he picked up on my questioning as doubts.

When he said he would never hurt me and would protect me, I asked him how could he prove it -- that's when he told me the story which is why I'm thinking it was thought up to earn my trust BUT I could be thinking too much into it

I would really appreciate knowing how others would approach this??