I know - tried it once but too expensive and I think they still seem to limit who you see

The new message rules make it much harder as you can't even message someone now you like, they have to like you back first but how would they know? It's really dumb.

Anyway fact is I find it hard to feel that motivated, I check in occasionally but not often. When I do get a message I'm scared about answering and not even sure if I would be suitable for someone to love me because no one ever has really apart from my daughter. Women don't want guys with 'baggage' or who have low confidence and I don't really blame them, I probably wouldn't want me either.